Addressing himself to Philocrites, Jaume de Marcos writes: "talking generally and not about your individual case (which is surely not unique), if people have two religions, one that is the "authentic" one, the one that appeals to their innermost spiritual feelings, and then UUism as the liberal church that they attend because of some commitment to liberal values or because they like to visit an interfaith place for interesting conversation, or to hear intelligent sermons, then this is a death knell for one of those two places, and I think I know which one is the loser. I wish that this religion rediscovers in time what it is truly about."
Jaume has argued variations on this point before and in different ways. As I understand his position, Unitarian Universalism is a new religion, distinct from its historical antecedents, and its adherents commitment to Unitarian Universalism should be exclusive. As I understand his argument when one becomes a Unitarian Universalist one "forsakes all others, clinging only" to this new religion. In the past he has critiqued "hyphenated UUs" and raised critiques of religiously plural congregations.
His idea of Unitarian Universalism is compelling for its simplicity, and he is not unique in holding that Unitarian Universalism as a singular religion (as contrasted to a pluralistic faith community.) But Juame's position is not based on the very real and spiritually rich Unitarian Universalist faith community that exists in the United States in 2006. Suffice to say we are diverse, and we have learned to embrace even greater diversity by becoming a pluralist faith community. That we are a pluralistic is a fact, we may never become a singular religion again. Scolding us for what we have become based on an ideal is "ideological." (I will write about our social history and its challenges at another time.)
In this post I wish to take up what I take to be the most offensive challenge of Jaume's argument. Is it true that a good Unitarian Universalist must have one, and only one religious identity and that identity should be pretty much the same for every Unitarian Universalist? He argues that if we have a "more authentic" religious or spirituality separate from generic Unitarian Universalism, we will find ourselves leaving this faith community. Thus he is challenging the idea that we can be loyal to this pluralistic faith community and engaged in deep spiritual work that is unique to us alone, (or which we share with some identity group within Unitarian Universalism or outside Unitarian Universalism.) Do we divide Unitarian Universalism by deepening our personal, spiritual, ethical and/or cultural identities beyond generic Unitarian Universalism? I disagree with Jaume, it is my contention that the genius of Unitarian Universalism is that it encourages us in a spiritual journey that may be separate, but not apart from Unitarian Universalism.
Who am I to have an opinion? What is my experience with living this question, resolving it in practice? I became a young adult and joined a Unitarian Universalist congregation during the year of the merger, and before that I was either a participant in Liberal Religious Youth or child in a Unitarian Sunday School and home. (My wife thinks that it is important to add that I born to Unitarian parents, I was nurtured in the faith before I went to Sunday school.) I am a minister in fellowship with the Unitarian Universalist Association. I have been elected to positions of trust in our Association many times over the last four decades. Unitarian Universalism is part of my identity. My commitment to this faith community is solid, I am no seeker floating in to check the Unitarian Universalists out and see if it will meet my needs. I learned long ago that that is not likely to happen. I stay because I am committed to helping Unitarian Universalism become what it proclaims itself to be.
In Unitarian Sunday School and Liberal Religious Youth we were encouraged to develop our own spirituality. I have tried again and again. We are never finished spirituality. Presently, I read sacred literature, the Bible and but not only the Bible. I reflect on what I read. Then I pray. Then I journal. And then I serve. I reflect on my praying, journaling and service and learn from my reflections.
I was taught to work on my unique spirituality before there was a Unitarian Universalism, this idea was and is and will be a foundation stone of this faith community. Our faith community teaches us that each of us are unique and have unique gifts, we are called to develop our own spirituality, the faith community will support us on this journey and hear our learnings and celebrate our uniqueness. (I repeat, I was taught this in 1957. If Jaume doesn't like this idea of developing a unique spirituality, he should talk to the religious educators and clergy of two and three generations past. He should talk to Emerson. It is too late to argue that we shouldn't be who we are. It is who we are.
I was influenced as a child by older relatives who were traditional Cherokee and kept the traditions alive. My parents experienced the racism in the larger society and the racism within this faith community and saw the solution in integration and being modern, they did not encourage me to identify with the Cherokee ways. After trying integration, I learned to appreciate the Cherokee way in mid-life. I developed a way of looking at the world through the eyes of my extended family. I studied with relatives who had embraced the traditional ways. That has become part of my spiritual identity as well.
My parents were Unitarian Christians. I cherish what they taught me. I am a disciple of Jesus, who for me was a non Western, impoverished day laborer who witnessed peace and justice. Being a disciple means to resurrect Jesus in my practice. I have had a long standing, if at times stressed relationship with the Unitarian Universalist Christian Fellowship. Being critical of the European ways of being Christian, and a lover of Jesus is part of my identity. This is an aspect of my spiritual identity that is separate, but not apart from Unitarian Universalism.
As a teenager in Liberal Religious Youth, I decided that I would not be a victim of the racism I encountered among the Unitarians, and I became engaged in the work of transformation. I am committed to an Unitarian Universalism that is on a journey toward wholeness to overcome its brokenness relative to racism, cultural oppression, sexism, heterosexism, classism, ablism, Too often the work of transformation has been deformed by ideology, an unloving rejection of the contradictory humans who make up our faith community in favor of an ideal of what we ought to be. I have joined with others in seeking transformation with a commitment to reconciliation. During those years I have witnessed that women, gays, lesbians, the differently abled, Unitarian Universalists of African descent, Latino-Latina-Hispanics, Asian and Pacific Island descent Unitarian Universalists who have experienced themselves as empowered and become deeper Unitarian Universalists through the experience of forming identity groups. For me, the work of transformation is soul work, it is part of my spirituality. This work has not been fed by generic Unitarian Universalism. But the spiritual perspective that we have gained over the decades from this work has enriched Unitarian Universalism. Transformation work is a spirituality, a source of our living tradition, and those who practice it develop a spiritual identity that is separate but not apart from Unitarian Universalism.
As I began to develop a spiritual practice based on the wisdom of the Cherokee people, I sought to articulate and practice an ethic of right relationship with animals (my non human relations.) Ten years ago I joined the Unitarian Universalists for the Ethical Treatment of Animals. I was on the board as Vice President, but in a couple of years it became clear that that organization had one vision of what the ethical treatment of animals must be, and thinking differently than the anti hunter, anti fisher vegan party line made me an outsider. I support UUFETA positions on factory farming, and oppose their positions on indigenous fishing rights. This too is a distinct part of my spiritual identity. It is separate, but not apart from Unitarian Universalism.
My spirituality has been formed by being in critical but loving relation with Unitarian Universalists and forming connections with people who were oppressed and marginalized by the Unitarian Universalist mainstream. I celebrate the freedom and responsibility to attend to my own spiritual life and support others in their journeys. I have never been nourished by generic Unitarian Universalism. I am a practicing, devoted Unitarian Universalist, "hyphenated" and separated yet part of the whole.
I read Jaume's pronouncement above with dismay. With all due respect for the Jaume's good intentions, I experience the statement to reflect a judgment that has little to do with how many of us live out our faith as Unitarian Universalists. I think we long ago found what this faith community is about, which is is becoming a pluralistic community in which many separate but not apart ways of being Unitarian Universalist could contribute to strengthening and renewing and deepening our common life together.